NSFW Q&A

The Therapist

Our resident Therapist was in a cheeky, playful and rather bold mood. She insisted on asking some the ID team and their friends a bunch of NSFW questions.

Questions and answers will be added here throughout August 2022:


1. When did you lose your virginity?

SWL: 15

Sir Dragon Sun: I was not quite 14 when I lost my virginity.

Syd: Far too young.

Max: 19

Shelley: 16 Rio: At 16 with my high school boyfriend.

Kinky Challenge: 17


2. Rough sex or soft sex?

SWL: Both! Soft sex becoming hard fucking and rough sex becoming soft, slow, intimate sex... Sometimes one or the other but I like variation.

Syd: I think there is always room for both, sometimes in the same session. I particularly like it when you're doing one and change to the other and see the shocked look on your partners face. Max: Have you read my blog about quickies? If not, I suggest you do! Read it here. Shelley: Definitely both, sometimes you need raw passion. Sometimes you need gentle loving "I adore you sex". Sometimes, it's starts as one but ends up being the other.

Rio: A bit of both. Kinky Challenge: Rough.


3. Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes?

SWL: Define unusual? You've seen my images... I'll let you make up your own mind.

Kinky Challenge: Loads! Cfnm /enf and pet play but are they really unusual?

Syd: I don’t think they are unusual, but other people might.

Max: I'm not sure if this counts as a kink or fetish but I can climax through worshipping my lovers cock. I absolutely love having him in my mouth.

Shelley: Since starting up Indulgent Desires I've realised there is no such thing as unusual when it comes to kinks and fetishes.

Rio: CNC (the r**e game).


4. Weirdest place you've had sex?

SWL: I don't think I've had sex in any "really" weird places. As a teenager it would be wherever I could - in the passenger seat of an old mini was probably the most challenging though.

Sir Dragon Sun: Under an overturned flat bottom aluminium boat.

Max: An airport car park and in full view of a tractor driver on a country lane.

Shelley: I'm a good girl, so far I'm limited to hotel rooms and Air BnB's (but I always leave the curtains open...)

Rio: An office boardroom. Kinky Challenge: A treehouse Syd: I once had sex with a Vicars Daughter in the graveyard of the church when he was in the middle of giving a sermon


5. Favourite sex position?

SWL: Missionary (anal), I like to see her body and watch the reactions on her face.

Max: Not a position as such but I love rubbing his cock against my clitoris after sex or play.

Syd: Doggy Style or Cowgirl.

Rio: Flat on my tummy with him on top

Kinky Challenge: Reverse cowgirl


6. Do you like to be Dominant or submissive?

SWL: DOMINANT

Max: Switching between both

Shelley: Submissive

Rio: Defo submissive!

Syd: I am switch. And not only that, but as a Bi guy I am generally Dom with women and Sub with guys. There are exceptions.

Kinky Challenge: Both with the right partner

Sir Dragon Sun: I'm a Dominant - that's a no brainer.


7. Have you ever had any one night stands?

SWL: Yes, all were very underwhelming but satisfied an urge at the time.

Max: Not yet... waiting for the moment

Shelley: None

Rio: Yes Syd: Yes

Kinky Challenge: Yes

Sir Dragon Sun: Too many when I was younger but not a thing now


8. Sex on the bed, couch or on the floor?

SWL: Why limit yourself? Sometimes all three in one session.

Max: All of the above... as well as boat decks, airplane toilets and most other places you could mention.

Shelley: All of them.

Syd: Couch.

Rio: Sex everywhere! But floor

Kinky Challenge: Bed, I'm getting too old now!


9. Have you ever had sex in a public place?

SWL: Yes, the best time being in an airport car park... other people could probably see the car rocking and guess from the steamed up windows what was happening.

Max: YES - many times and many more to come.

Syd: Yeah, quite a few times!

Rio: Several times!

Sir Dragon Sun: Many years ago, in a parking lot.

Kinky Challenge: Yes.


10. Have you ever been caught masturbating?

SWL: No - but I have been watched

Max: Yes, he walked in brazenly and took over... but forgot to close the door. My friend (female) walked past saw what we were up to and joined in... this was my cherry popped for a first threesome!

Syd: Only by partners, who then joined in.

Rio: Uh huh, many times!

Sir Dragon Sun: As a teen boy, of course.

Kinky Challenge: Yes but kinda on purpose!


11. What does your favourite sexy underwear look like?

SWL: Stockings and suspenders (no bra or knickers)

Max: Anything crotchless

Shelley: I'm most comfortable when I'm naked.

Syd: For myself, I have some nice silk boxers. For others, whatever makes them feel sexy.

Rio: -Something tiny that barely serves a purpose.

Sir Dragon Sun: None!

Kinky Challenge: White g.string and matching bra.


12. How often do you have sex?

SWL: When we're together - as often as we can (several times a day)

Max: Whenever the opportunity is there...

Shelley: As often as I can when I'm with SWL.

Syd: As often as I can.

Rio: Twice a day.

Kinky Challenge: Not enough!


13. Is there anyone right now you'd like to have sex with?

SWL: Other than my girlfriend? No. If I had to choose though - Audrey Tautou, she's cheeky and cute.

Max: All of my supporters, male/female/NB - I WANT IT ALL

Shelley: SWL - Full Stop. End of story

Syd: Yeah, and she knows who she is.

Rio: My boyfriend James.

Kinky Challenge: Yes.


14. Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?

SWL: Both in equal measure, but separately - I'm not a fan of 69's, I don't think you can concentrate enough on giving or receiving.

Max: Giving

Syd: Both. And I'm a fan of 69ing.

Rio: I love giving!

Sir Dragon Sun: I prefer an even exchange.

Kinky Challenge: Giving.